This is Part 3 of this new series of articles titled "Aquarius Jane". It is the focus on self that leads to a never ending cycle of dissatisfactions and unhappiness. Never forget its not YOU, its really a matter of your perception. The topic is low self esteem. I would love to hear your thoughts or reactions to this article. Don't for get to drop by AquariusJane.blogspot.com, take my poll, post your comments and enjoy your time there.
Low Self Esteem is essentially a negative feeling toward one self. This negative form of thinking is often present at the root of many self centered fears. In part 2 of this series of articles we discussed the issue of rejection. There was also tips left to overcome the fear of rejection. The Fear of Refection can be overcome by forcing yourself into action. It is the lack of action that feeds this fear and keeps going on the inside a vicious cycle of unfulfillment. I encourage you to continue to read on this subject, that will support your efforts to overcome this fear. Remember we are going out there to find our love, repair our love, hold on to our love, or getting our only love back. So what keeps inactive? What keeps us from challenging our fear? It is my view that the main reason we can't find, hold on to, or get back our love the we deserve is the fear of rejection. This keeps us inactive and our fear of rejection continues to grow with every inaction that doesn't directly challenge our perception of rejection, which usually takes place all in the mind. In order to overcome this fear there must be a changing of the self esteem. Low self esteem is the ingredient that prevents us from challenging our fears. Everyone has an area in their life that they are not comfortable with. When it comes to love the area that is most affected is self. I encourage you to continue to read on this subject, that will support your efforts to overcome low self esteem. Remember we are going out there to find our love, repair our love, hold on to our love, or getting our only love back. There are countless resources on the internet that can help you. Its best to do something rather than nothing because doing nothing is the food that feeds loneliness and unhappiness. The best act to fight low self esteem is saying to yourself that I am perfectly me, exactly how I was made. Don't' Compare Yourself To Others, low self esteem in many ways originate from unfair comparisons of our insides to the outside of others. Low self esteem tell us we are not good enough, cute enough, strong enough, rich enough. Low self esteem is rarely satisfied with self.
The Fear of Refection can be overcome by forcing yourself into action. It is the lack of action that feeds this fear and keeps going on the inside a vicious cycle of unfulfillment. Low Self Esteem is usually present in a strong degree when confronting the fear of rejection. How to Overcome Low Self Esteem Today? Its best to do something rather than nothing because doing nothing is the food that feeds loneliness and unhappiness. Start to listen to your thoughts and when that I am not good enough thought arises get into action, that is the medicine. The best act to fight low self esteem is saying to yourself that I am perfectly me, exactly how I was made. Go shopping, find your style and be proud of who you are. Self confidence is the number one aspect potential mates seek out within minutes of a introduction. Self confidence is the opposite of low self esteem. Self confidence say I am and I can. Low self esteem says I am not good enough.
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