This IS Part 2 of a series of articles titled "Aquarius Jane". This series goes into the topic of this thing we call love. Valentines Day 2011 is here upon us and with that day brings to some great happiness, to others great pain. It is the focus on self that leads to a never ending cycle of dissatisfactions and unhappiness. Never forget its not YOU, its really a matter of your perception. In Part2 of this series we are going right to the root of things a discuss the matter of rejection. By the end of the Aquarius Jane series I hope you will feel inspired to find your love. Now to the good stuff, the topic is rejection. I would love to hear your thoughts or reactions to this article. Don't for get to drop by AquariusJane.blogspot.com, take my poll, post your comments and enjoy your time there.
THE INORDINATE FEAR of Rejection is the FEAR of not being accepted. This is a deadly form of self centered fear. To be live in fear of rejection keeps one in a box like existence, never getting what the heart truly desires. The Fear of rejection tells us that if we don't ask we can't be disappointed. I want for you to learn HOW TO OVERCOME THE FEAR OF REJECTION AND LIVE. However no matter what that Fear presents through our mind, it is this not asking, not seeking, not risking that feeds a vicious cycle of rejection. We actually invite what we seek to avoid by not challenging those fears and moving in spite of thoughts of rejection. With practice and time you will see in no time it is the assertive act that gets us what we want. Living in fear of rejection leads to a lack of action and nothing can be accomplished by NOT ACTING and that includes finding and holding on to your love. In many of us this fear is deeply ingrained in us. It takes practice and constant reinforcement to change the lack of action cause by the fear of rejection. I highly suggest reading all positive material that will help support you in the defeat of the fear of rejection. Every man has experienced the scenario wherein there is a lovely lady that caught your eye. Within five minutes in her eyes we look like a stalker because we just sit in stair. It is the though of rejection that keeps it at a stare and not a simple "hello" to the lovely lady. Every woman has experienced the feeling wherein she is in the presence of someone who attracts her, but as in the above example no connect is possible because the though of "what if" is there which leads to no action, no hello, no date, no valentine.
The Fear of Rejection can be overcome by forcing yourself into action. It is the lack of action that feeds this fear and keeps going on the inside a vicious cycle of unfulfillment. I encourage you to continue to read on this subject, that will support your efforts to overcome this fear. Remember we are going out there to find our love, repair our love, hold on to our love, or getting our only love back. There are countless resources on the internet that can help you. Its best to do something rather than nothing because doing nothing is the food that feeds loneliness and unhappiness. Start to listen to your thoughts and when that fear of rejection arises get into action, that is the medicine. I challenge you for only two days, speak with a smile to everyone that crosses your path that you are able to smile and say hello to as you go along your day. I guarantee you there will be more returned hello's than rejections. That's what we have to do to overcome this fear, you have to give a little to get a little.
