Just checking in after yet another weekend. How Was Your Weekend? What did you do? Did you go out on a date? If not, why not? If so, how did it go? These questions aren't necessarily for me, but for you. These are the questions you ask yourself sometime, just to keep track of where you are in your quest to find the love you deserve.
I was at my favorite restaurant this weekend with a date (of course) :). As I looked around the restaurant I couldn't help but notice that dating can be a stressful event. Will they like you? What are they thinking of you? Did YOUR last comment seem foolish? Well I have just the remedy for you, and guess what? You don't have the but the newest speed seduction gimmick to get this remedy and its very simple. Are you ready for this?
JUST BE YOURSELF. IF YOUR DATE DON'T LIKE YOU FOR YOU THEN FIND ANOTHER DATE UNTIL YOU COME ACROSS THE ONE WHO LIKES AND ENJOY YOU FOR ALL THAT YOU ARE.
March 6, 2011
February 22, 2011
How To Deal With Loneliness
Everyone in the world has felt this emotion one time or another. Especially in these times rapid technological growth the feeling of loneliness is rapidly increasing.
Firstly, we must clarify what loneliness means.
Loneliness is an emotional state. This is a state where people experience a disconnection from people around them as well as a deep feeling of emptiness, which renders their present company around them meaningless.
That person could be in a big crowd or by him/herself, married or single, young or old. They basically find it very hard to connect with others and experiences emancipation from meaningful relationships.
This is not to be confused with being alone.
Being alone does not equate to being lonely because sometimes it is good for a person to be alone and at times it could be very refreshing as the person has the opportunity to refresh, recuperate and rediscover part of our lives.
What are the common symptoms of being alone, if you are reading this? I bet you might be feeling one of these symptoms.
• You think your problems are so unique that other people do not understand
• As a result, you feel that other people in the world has friends and you don’t
• You feel extremely self-conscious in everything you do
• You feel that when you do something wrong, you get extremely embarrassed
• When you are in a crowd, you feel drowned by their voices
• You feel disconnected with the crowd even though you are with them
• Feeling shy and scared of others
• Experiencing low self-esteem
• Feeling angry, defensive and critical at everything even if it is not directed at you
• Afraid of strangers and refuse to talk to engage in a hearty conversation
• Being convinced there is something wrong with you
• Feeling anxious and sad believing no one knows how miserable/isolated you feel
• Losing your capacity to be assertive' feeling "invisible"
• Refusing to accept change and don’t want to try anything new
• Feeling as though nothing else matters and contemplating suicide
More of this Article Can be Found here: http://www.howtodealwithloneliness.com/
Firstly, we must clarify what loneliness means.
Loneliness is an emotional state. This is a state where people experience a disconnection from people around them as well as a deep feeling of emptiness, which renders their present company around them meaningless.
That person could be in a big crowd or by him/herself, married or single, young or old. They basically find it very hard to connect with others and experiences emancipation from meaningful relationships.
This is not to be confused with being alone.
Being alone does not equate to being lonely because sometimes it is good for a person to be alone and at times it could be very refreshing as the person has the opportunity to refresh, recuperate and rediscover part of our lives.
What are the common symptoms of being alone, if you are reading this? I bet you might be feeling one of these symptoms.
• You think your problems are so unique that other people do not understand
• As a result, you feel that other people in the world has friends and you don’t
• You feel extremely self-conscious in everything you do
• You feel that when you do something wrong, you get extremely embarrassed
• When you are in a crowd, you feel drowned by their voices
• You feel disconnected with the crowd even though you are with them
• Feeling shy and scared of others
• Experiencing low self-esteem
• Feeling angry, defensive and critical at everything even if it is not directed at you
• Afraid of strangers and refuse to talk to engage in a hearty conversation
• Being convinced there is something wrong with you
• Feeling anxious and sad believing no one knows how miserable/isolated you feel
• Losing your capacity to be assertive' feeling "invisible"
• Refusing to accept change and don’t want to try anything new
• Feeling as though nothing else matters and contemplating suicide
More of this Article Can be Found here: http://www.howtodealwithloneliness.com/
Use Your Alone Time To Your Advantage
When you are alone the feeling of longing for that someone to fill the void is very real and can be painful. Those feelings can be so intense that it becomes hard to focus on anything else which usually lead to depression. Be depressed no more! Use you alone time to your advantage by taking care of you, becoming a better you. Many times we jump into relationships just to rid ourselves of that lonely feeling only to feel empty inside the relationship. This is because what we really desire is to be whole with self. Once this is accomplished then the appreciation for that special someone grows ten fold.
When those feelings of lonelinees come, and they usually come in full force, try doing something for you. What is it that you would improve within yourself. Is it an anger problem, go take an anger mangement class. Is it a depndency problem, read a book on co-dependency. Is it a confidence/low self esteem problem, get an ebook and study that problem. Working on you during the alone times of life will only make for a better, stronger relationship down the road when your love appear.
When those feelings of lonelinees come, and they usually come in full force, try doing something for you. What is it that you would improve within yourself. Is it an anger problem, go take an anger mangement class. Is it a depndency problem, read a book on co-dependency. Is it a confidence/low self esteem problem, get an ebook and study that problem. Working on you during the alone times of life will only make for a better, stronger relationship down the road when your love appear.
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